Day 13:Love Fights Fair

If your spouse particpated with you, what was their response? She didn't participate with me.

What rules did you write for yourself? What I realize is that with the pairs training that we have had, and coach training that I have had, that in times of tension, I need to be proactive about suggesting that we use the tools tha we know. We know from past experience that they work well, but sometimes I don't seem to have the emotional fortitude to really remind her that we need to do what we know. Alot easier to just withdraw, and try to ignore things.